Posted by Paula Popejoy on November 29, 2003 at 03:06:58:
I have so many thoughts each day about Bob, it's hard to only write in this forum once! The services were so wonderful, hearing what Bob meant to everyone, and seeing his influence, and the influence of Christ through him. It's easy for me to be non-social at occasions like this, but thinking about What Would Bob Do?, I started talking with the lady I sat next to, "Dottie" I believe. She said Bob and Gretchen had saved her life the day she was going to commit suicide years ago. She was brought over to their house as a last resort, and they ministered to her. She credits being alive because of what they did for her. Then they helped her get out of the Jehovah's Witnesses cult. And then her family got out also. Then they made a movie about it all, and go around the country now ministering to other searching people. And she credits it to Bob and Gretchen's being used by the Lord.
Back at their house afterwards, I met a Messianic Jew who had never even met Bob and Gretchen, but had heard them on the radio, or just heard about them, and knew he would be welcome to come to their house. What Would Bob Do?, I thought. We had a great talk, and I realized how usually I had left those kinds of talks up to Bob before! I shared with him some of the Passantino views I could tell he'd never heard before, like Joshua 21 which says ALL of the promises for Israel's land have ALREADY been fulfilled, so there is nothing keeping back the Second Coming of Christ. I shared with him how alot of evangelicalism comes out of dispensational thought, and then what the historic teaching of Christianity has been. I invited him to stay in touch with Gretchen and AIA, and hopefully he will.
While having that wonderful lunch (thank you for providing such a feast!), I got in a passionate theological discussion with
Gretchen's brother whom I now dearly call "Calvinist Cal", and an old professor of mine Ralph Mackenzie, and inside thought, "Is this the wrong occasion to debate like this? But then I thought, What Would Bob Do?, and continued. The conversation ended up opening nice doors for future dialogue, and was edifying and helpful!
I also talked with Gretchen's sister Beverly who had come in from India. She was so nice, a wonderful woman, and expressed how that even though she had different beliefs than us, she felt included, and felt respected for her views. That's what Bob and Gretchen do, include and respect. It was deeply moving to me that she could see those fruits in the rest of us. Those aren't virtues that come naturally to me, but Bob and Gretchen have rubbed off enough to where they're evident a little, and hopefully more each day!
I many not always know what Jesus would do, since He is God and I'm not, but sometimes I can guess What Bob Would Do, and it's been fun trying! Including the un-included in conversations, talking about things with good content, respecting, counseling, teaching, representing Jesus Christ.
I like hearing the things you're thinking about Bob in this forum, and would like to hear more! It's a daily getting-used-to, a daily "loss" although we know where he is and are thrilled for him, but it's hard. Thank you all for sharing your thoughts, they've helped me alot.
Much love, Paula
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